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1st Mistake
2nd Mistake
4th Mistake
3- 3rd Mistake : Proceed rationally :
The majority of men and women try to discuss with the partner to convince him/her to come back and not to go.
This reason doesen't work , if anyone knew the psychological reasons that lead people to this choice is One reason to live a relationship with someone has nothing to do with rationality (we will not consider here the relationship based on economic reasons). Instead, the desire to start a relationship is due to the need to feel something, to experience emotions. "The heart has reasons which reason is nothing" (Pascal)
Based on this observation, we have to put in your head that does not generate feelings with logic and rational arguments
You will not be able to convince rationally, and more to say how he/she should feel. Romantic relationships require an emotion, and it can be generated by some unconscious attitudes of the other person and not by rational réflection. We must move the other person to have feelings for you. Emotion is a prerequisite, the justification rational.
One of the most important factors for a person feels attracted to you is :
How do you see yourself ? Do You feel good and satistfied or destroyed ?
A typical characteristic of people in general (recognized by psychology) is the tendency to align with the moral state of the people who surround you.
Have you ever spent time with someone who is depressed and dumps? Did you feel good in his company and you are you entertained? I guess not. The most likely is that you feel you are in a worse condition on arrival and departure. Now the reflector to spend time with a person knowing a good time in his life. I guess you will feel better.
The relationship with your ex is no exception to the rule.
If you feel constantly depressed in his presence, you will not feel better. Your ex will feel the negative emotions around , as a result, he/she will try to avoid contact with you a little more each time.
The argument contains the answer :
If you want your ex to be with you, you must work on yourself, you need to change yourself. So your ex will notice your positive emotions and feel good in your presence.
And it will not be so long when your ex remember the beautiful feelings of the past and that he/she feels attracted to you again
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Experience has shown that when someone feels good with himself and with his surroundings, this person has more charm.
What will happen if you have already made those mistakes? There's nothing going on, which is why this document exists. If you did not make any mistake, then you would perhaps with your partner. This will help with this kind of situations and then you can save your relationship.